What Is Your Favorite Part About Y O U R S E L F?

I once was sitting on a little bench way up in the sky looking out at one of the most breathtaking, serene, beautiful lookouts I have ever seen, (and am lucky enough to call one of my favorite spots), of the ocean and the city, cozy under just a small blanket with someone I really enjoyed spending time with, and at the same time, was still getting to know. I asked them what their favorite part about themself was. Stumped, kind of, after a few minutes of thinking, they responded that they loved their maturity. Then, when in turn they asked me the same thing, without even thinking too deeply, this came out of my mouth: "I love my ability to bring out a different side in people, especially one that is unexpected or has just never before been seen." They responded in some really flattering and awesome words, and then they told me that to them, I had brought out a side, or a part of themself that they did not even know existed. This was the first time I really reflected on something I am good at, and without hesitation, or modesty, just stated it.

I thought in the moment, and now am sure, that the reason that person was so stumped when I had asked them the question, and the reason that very night was the first time I ever put thought into that question myself, is because that is something we don't talk about enough.. what we LOVE about ourselves. People talk about what they are good at (and are usually cocky about it), people talk about what they love and what they do not love, but it is not often to hear somebody talking about what they love about them!

So, I left, and I thought. And I thought and thought. And, all of a sudden, I came to a realization, that not only am I really good at, but I really love it; making others feel comforted and welcome and all around warm.

With that ability, I have noticed that I get a very warm, welcoming response back. I have brought soft sides out of guys who never even dared to show emotion among others, I have been the reason behind tears of sadness and tears of happiness coming from those who "don't cry", I have opened up with people whom I have gotten to know so many deep, important, interesting aspects to, so far beyond surface-level that I would have never in my wildest dreams thought before that. And it is all conversation. Real, meaningful, impactful, knowledgeable, important, deep and eager conversation. And in doing this, I feel closer to people than ever, and I have an entire new perspective on that person and our relationship. Sharing feelings and thoughts with people is important, healing and beautiful! If there is somebody in your life who makes you feel comfortable enough to share these types of things with you, or even who makes you feel comfortable to be yourself, treasure them- they are special! And give it in return!

"Be somebody who makes everybody feel like a somebody" <3

What is your favorite part about Y O U R S E L F?